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2 Apr 2024

Mourning a Miscarriage When You're Pregnant Again

Mourning a Miscarriage When You're Pregnant Again
Remember, mourning a miscarriage while being pregnant again is a unique experience, and everyone copes differently. Be patient with yourself, allow yourself to feel the emotions that arise, and reach out for support when needed
Understanding the Emotions
Miscarriage is a painful experience, and it's completely normal to feel a mix of emotions when you're pregnant again after a loss. Acknowledge that it's okay to grieve for your previous pregnancy while still feeling joy and excitement for the current one. Understand that these emotions can coexist, and there is no right or wrong way to feel.
Seeking Support
During this time, it's crucial to seek support from your loved ones and healthcare professionals who can provide guidance and reassurance. Open up to your partner, friends, or family members about your feelings. Joining support groups or seeking counseling can also be beneficial, as you'll meet others who have gone through similar experiences and can offer understanding and empathy.
Nurturing Self-Care
Practicing self-care is essential as you navigate this emotional journey. Take time for yourself and indulge in activities that bring you comfort and joy. This can include gentle exercises like yoga or walking, enjoying a warm bath, listening to soothing music, or engaging in hobbies that help you relax and express your emotions. Remember, self-care looks different for everyone, so do what feels right for you.
Bonding with Your Current Pregnancy
Finding ways to bond with your current pregnancy can help you move forward while honoring your previous loss. Consider the following ideas to foster a deeper connection with your baby:
  • Write a letter or journal: Express your thoughts, hopes, and dreams for your current pregnancy. Reflect on your previous loss and how it has shaped your journey.
  • Create a memory box: Collect meaningful items, such as ultrasound pictures, positive pregnancy tests, or small tokens that represent your previous and current pregnancies.
  • Practice mindfulness: Take moments throughout the day to focus on your baby and the present moment. This can be as simple as placing your hand on your belly and sending love and positive energy to your growing little one.
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Christina
3 Feb 2024

When do you try again after miscarriage? I jus had my dnc done last week. How soon is to soon. It does take me while to get pregnant and this was my first miscarriage after three live births #tosoon #miscarriage #tryin

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Kristi
I’m sorry momma🥺. I just lost my son at 20 weeks and 3 days this past Christmas Day due to preterm labor. He was perfect and healthy too, which I feel like almost made it worse. My doctor recommended if I couldn’t wait 6 months to try and wait 3. Im not going to lie though, I found out I was ovulating last Monday at peak fertility (didn’t even get my first period yet) and we tried this past week. I probably should have waited but I just want to have some happiness back in my life. My son will never ever be replaced, but I’m longing for a baby again. Whenever you feel is the right time after you are physically and emotionally healed❤️
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Elizabeth
My doc. Told me bc my levels were back to normal I could start trying now. We lost our angel on the 17th of Jan. Do it hasn’t been as full month yet and she said go for it.
27 Mar 2024

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Eddisha
2 Oct 2023

Got pregnant long ago lost baby frist time Miscarriage..... now I'm pregnant again

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I got pregnant 3 months after mine
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Sara
19 Sep 2023

Just found out I’m pregnant again after a miscarriage back in March of this year . I’m scared of having another miscarriage 🥺 .

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Ms.April 🤰🏾😍💗
I definitely understand I had a miscarriage back in January and I’m 12w pregnant now .. and I can’t help but worry 24/7 😩 I pray that this one is our rainbow baby
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Juju
Don’t think on that part keep your mind clean as possible
27 Mar 2024

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Liz
9 Aug 2023

So i just found out I'm pregnant again but we're having a hard time with it because we had a miscarriage 2 months ago. Anyone have advice or love to share it would be really appreciated 🩷 #misscariage #pregnancyafterloss

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Brittney
I went through this. Honestly I just took it one day at a time and just enjoyed the process. Pray over your baby and body. I had more peace of mind the second time.
27 Mar 2024

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Liz
I'm really trying to think of this as a new beginning and not stress but the worry is still there
27 Mar 2024

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Tara Burkett
10 Jun 2023

this is when i had my first miscarriage and now i am pregnant again after i lost our baby 2 Months Ago

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Tara Burkett
I'm 3 Weeks and 1 day
27 Mar 2024

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Tayyyy
2 Jun 2023

Well guys i had a miscarriage April 20th and found out i was pregnant again recently 🫣

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Tameka
Wow Congratulations again
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Jamesha
Congratulations
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Aleesha
15 Jan 2023

After a miscarriage in September 2021 we finally did it! 3 weeks 6 days. Has anyone who had a miscarriage been twice as scared when they get pregnant again? How did you handle it?

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Deborah
I’m super nervous too. I had a miscarriage in November. I took two test and they both came back positive. I think I’m going to test myself to death.
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Logan
1 Sep 2022

For those of you who have had a miscarriage and are pregnant again, how do you get over the anxiety of it happening again? I vividly remember the feeling of the first bleeding and keep expecting to see blood when I go to the bathroom. I feel terrified all the time.

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Jamila
If it makes sense I still feel anxiety even tho my baby 2 weeks
27 Mar 2024

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Shamani
i honestly was fine until today
27 Mar 2024

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Terry
28 Apr 2022

I’ve had early miscarriage on January. We’ve been trying to get pregnant again for couple months now but still nothing happens yet. I’m worry that after miscarriage I cant get pregnant again.

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Sam
You can definitely get pregnant again. I've had two.
27 Mar 2024

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Lawanda
I had an miscarriage in January also and I'm still trying
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Deanna
11 Jan 2022

Ok y’all my life has been a roller coaster these last few months I just went through a miscarriage and we think we’re already pregnant again bc I spotted light pink for two days is that a sign of conception??

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Katie
I am going through the same thing right now. 💐
27 Mar 2024

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