WeMoms
12 Mar 2024

The role of the father-to-be during pregnancy

Expecting a child is best experienced by two people. What is the role of the father-to-be during pregnancy?

  • You are the one carrying the baby, but don't forget the one who planted the seed.
  • The most important thing during this phase of upheaval is undoubtedly to talk.

  • Your partner needs to know how you feel in order to better understand you and accompany you during these 9 months.
  • Invite him to attend ultrasounds so that he becomes aware of the baby's development.
  • Don't hesitate to give him tasks that will make him feel involved in his new life as a father.

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Brianna
25 Dec 2023

any mommies doing this pregnancy alone? like father non existent? He wants me to get an abortion but I want to have my child. He is set on not being a father to the child , or even being in its life at all. I have two other kids & never in my life went through something like this. I am literally about to do everything on my own down to labor and delivery.

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nikaia
i’m not experiencing this but this probably isn’t the answer your looking for but if i personally was in this situation i wouldn’t force fatherhood on someone who knows they aren’t ready and especially i couldn’t do it without any help because i know how MY family is they wouldn’t support me and if hes not gonna be there it’s definitely gonna be a challenge it’s your choice on what you want to do just know i know how it feels to not have a dad since im the child in this situation definitely makes you different but of course I support you and your decision just as if I would want your support with my decision if I was in this situation much love momma and goodluck 🩷
25 Dec 2023

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Brianna
thanks but nowhere did I say I was forcing it on him by any means, he is free to do as he pleases, I was just wondering if anyone else went through a similar experience or is currently going through it
25 Dec 2023

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JayEra
18 Dec 2023

I hate how lonely pregnancy makes you feel especially when you can’t call your baby’s father because he’s passed away.. and that’s the only person you want to speak to. I try not to be sad for my baby but it’s hard emotions are high.

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༻❦ꨄᜣꫝꪖꪻꪑꪖ.ꫝᒿᦲꨄ❦༺
Ohhhh wow that’s crazy prayers sent to u n baby
18 Dec 2023

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Blessed Mommy
Omg 😢 my condolences 😔 sending love and prayers to you and your baby 💕
18 Dec 2023

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Ashley
6 Nov 2023

So this is my first pregnancy and I'm having a hard time. My baby father doesn't want to be here for us. I don't know what to do. I'm so stressed out and I'm always throwing up.

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Eliana
Same here luv my friends are more supportive
6 Nov 2023

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Eliana
Find a friend to give u any support
6 Nov 2023

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JLIGHT
27 Aug 2023

This is my first pregnancy being able to be involved in as a father, there's alot I don't know about pregnancy, but I hopped on this app to get a better understanding of what the mother iz going thru, hopefully I'll gain some knowledge in this journey, it's been ruff for me😔

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Rachel
Welcome! Hopefully we can all help you understand better. There’s a great bunch of ladies on here so please feel free to ask any questions you may have.
27 Aug 2023

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JLIGHT
😊 will do
27 Aug 2023

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Teila
23 May 2023

Any other moms to be going through pregnancy alone ? It's my first pregnancy and the father isn't around . Found out he has another woman pregnant and is with her. It's been the hardest thing I've ever had to go through.. having all these firsts alone .. idk if i can do this.

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Maya
I'm so sorry mama. He gone get his because every bill comes due.
23 May 2023

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Kym
U r 24wks u already doing it. Just stay positive and keep pushing through for your child. U r stronger than you know. Don't let this FOOL ruin this experience for u and all ur first.
23 May 2023

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Micah
30 Jan 2023

I need some friends me and the father of my baby just broke up and my bestfriend just passed away😢. This pregnancy has been very hard for me and I don't know how to do it alone I am going to be a first time mom.🥺

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Deedy
Same here but we got thisss , reach out if you need to hunn 💓🙏🏽
30 Jan 2023

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Melanie 💗
we got thisss 💗 reach out if yuu need too.
30 Jan 2023

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Daijanea
3 Jan 2023

This is my first pregnancy and I’m a single mom & im very to this by myself without a father figure in my child’s life

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Daijanea
Thank you ❤️❤️
3 Jan 2023

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Lexi
Never think that you need someone in your life yes it will be hard but you know you can do it no matter what!💗
3 Jan 2023

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Tamela
16 Nov 2022

I feel like the father of my child doesn’t want to be with me anymore and is just with me because I am pregnant. I have a feeling he is going to leave me after I give birth. This is our second pregnancy.

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Ari
Awww, why you feel like that? Is he changing since you been pregnant or something?
16 Nov 2022

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Daijahnae
26 May 2022

My Father (GOD) says I will have a beautiful pregnancy. I am taking Him at His Word and so I refuse to believe your lies(Devil). #prayer #belief

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Mayra
Amen faith is everything
26 May 2022

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Arnetia
Amen by faith it will all work out by faith Daijahnae 🙏🏿 🙌🏿
26 May 2022

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Bailey
8 May 2022

Is it weird to have a bf who isn’t the father during pregnancy? Like my baby daddy wants to be in the babies life but I just find it awkward if I have a bf at the hospital as well as the baby daddy ..

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nyci
I don’t see a problem with them both being there 🤷🏽‍♀️
8 May 2022

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Sophie
It’s awk at first but the more you spend time with both of them around the easier it is and my advice is , have those who make you truly comfortable and safe with in the room for delivery. Yes the father of the baby wants to be there to see his child born (I mean he’s already see all of you so that part shouldn’t matter and the bf should understand that bc he’d want to be in the room to see his baby being born too) but if you don’t feel safe and comfortable with either one of them in the room then they don’t need to be in there and it also depends on how the friendship is with you and the ex is bc if y’all have a good friendship then that’s great and maybe you could talk to both of them about it bc having a good friendship with the baby daddy is a good thing to keep when co parenting
8 May 2022

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