The complexity of the father-son relationship

My son’s father is always present and now officially live together 💙💙 I love that for them 👶🏼👶🏼

I have had to endure so much emotional pain my poor son my pregnancy has been far from easy I’ve been so depressed due to health concerns with us both 🤰and my family and my relationship with his father this is the most overwhelming experience I’ve ever lived !!! I kno I’m gonna have the strongest bond with my son on Sunday my pride and joy will be in my arms finally after 9 long months

So me and my son father is not on good terms.he wants my son to be a jr and I don’t not because we’re on bad terms I just don’t want my son to be a jr .and he told me if I don’t name him after he won’t talk to me be he treats me good when he wants to one day he blocks me and one day I’m unblock I don’t want to be in a relationship with him or anything so I don’t care that he blocked me I just be trying to keep him updated on my pregnancy because I’m high risk

Bedsharing has ruined my relationship with my child's father. He never wanted me to that in worry I would hurt the baby. A lot of night I put him to sleep in his own space. I am breast feeding so a lot of times he ends up back in bed with me. My partner no longer trusts me from the times he has come in the room and I am sleeping cuddled with our son. This is ridiculous.

What’s really hard is watching your 8 yr olds father talk about his future kids with his fiancé (my best friend the whole time I was pregnant) but he hasn’t seen his existing son since he was 11 months old ..on top of feeling guilty for being upset because of my current relationship of 8 years ..ugh

am i wrong for not giving my son his fathers last name when we aren’t together and haven’t had the best relationship since i got pregnant??😭

I’ve separated with my son’s father back in December and it feels like as time goes on it gets emotionally harder to coparent. We get along just fine and at first it was easy but now it’s hard on me to be away from my son when he’s with his dad. I’m always sad to the point I’ve thought to myself that I regretted putting my needs first and ending a toxic relationship instead of staying so I can be with my son 24/7. Can anyone else relate? Or does anyone have any tips on how to make it easier emotionally and mentally when I don’t have my son?

I miss him so much I can’t wait until our son gets here so I can tell him what a amazing man his father was r.I.h to the love of my life and the father to my unborn son Kevontre Halcrumb 💔

I just randomly walked to my hubby's face while he was lying down n I put my belly on his face n said ina baby-like voice Happy Father's Day Dadda 😂😄 he got so happy..I never had a good relationship with my father..n father of my 1st daughter cheated on me when I was pregnant..I left him when my daughter was 1 year old n he never even ever called to ask about her..n my hubby now accepted my 1st daughter n even accepted his child when he had a choice not to...so I do appreciate him for that..n I would say no matter how ur relationship is with ur partners...if they're a good father to their child/children appreciate them..I hope y'all enjoy the father's Day with y'all fathers n partners.

Literally I've been so focused on trying to fix my relationship with my son's father for the best out come for my son but in reality my son has no conection to his dad, I try to find new love bc I'm scared to be alone! But now at this point in life I just want the best for my son n that's to focus on myself n love me n my son so I can give him the best of life♥️