If you are 17-20ish pregnant or have a child already- I’ll support you and encourage you… what I don’t support is 17-20ish and TRYING to get pregnant… Baby, it’s not cupcakes and daisies. This is a great responsibility! This is a life we’re talking about- a little human, who God willing, will be an adult someday. It’s disheartening to see so many young girls trying to get pregnant when they have the opportunity to go to school and get a better education. To focus on bettering themselves. Getting an apartment, owning a condo or house. Owning their own car. Just being in a better mental and emotional state. Understand me- many of us mothers want the best for you! Don’t have a child when any ole dude who ain’t about nothing! Don’t have a child by him for him just to keep him. Don’t become the stereotype. Rise above the expectations of your environment and acquire a firm foundation in your life. Baby you got much to accomplish before you bring a child into the world- seize the opportunity!