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2 Apr 2024

Can I Still Have Sex?

Pregnancy
Sexuality and pregnancy
Can I Still Have Sex?
One of the most common concerns during pregnancy is, "Is it safe to have sex?" The answer for most people is a resounding, "Yes!" 🎉 Of course, every pregnancy is different, so it's crucial to consult with your healthcare provider about your specific circumstances.
But for many, sex during pregnancy is not only safe but also beneficial. It can improve emotional connection with your partner, relieve stress, and even help you sleep better.
  • Physical Changes: Your body is working overtime to nurture a new life, which means you might experience increased blood flow to the pelvic area, making sex even more pleasurable.
  • Hormonal Impact: Hormones like oxytocin and endorphins are released during sexual activity, which can reduce stress and promote relaxation.
  • Communication: It’s the perfect opportunity to explore new avenues of intimacy. Talk openly with your partner about your changing body and emotions, so both of you are on the same page.
When to Exercise Caution
However, there are some situations where caution is advised. If you have a high-risk pregnancy, experiencing preterm labor symptoms, or have been advised bed rest, it’s important to adhere to medical recommendations. Even if you're eager to keep the romance alive, sometimes it's best to take a temporary pause for the health of you and your baby.
  • Spotting or Bleeding: If you experience any spotting or bleeding post-coitus, it's important to consult your healthcare provider immediately.
  • Placenta Previa: This condition, where the placenta lies low in the uterus, can make sex risky.
  • Preterm Labor Risks: If you’ve previously had preterm labor or have multiple babies on the way, these are also reasons to discuss your sexual activity with your doctor.
Alternative Ways to Keep the Spark Alive
Don't worry; taking a break from sex doesn't mean the end of intimacy! There are other ways to maintain a strong emotional connection with your partner. After all, intimacy isn’t solely about the physical aspects; it’s about maintaining a deep emotional connection, especially during such a transformative phase of life.
  • Emotional Intimacy: Spend time cuddling, talking, or simply enjoying each other's company.
  • Non-Penetrative Options: Activities like mutual masturbation, outercourse, or oral sex can be good alternatives if penetrative sex isn't recommended.
  • Affectionate Gestures: Small actions like holding hands, hugs, or even a loving glance can go a long way in keeping the bond strong.
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Meghan
3 Feb 2024

I’ve had a lot of unprotected sex and still haven’t gotten pregnant does this mean I can’t get pregnant?

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Tae
I think I struggle with knowing when I am ovulating. Have you went to a fertility doctor?
27 Mar 2024

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Mariah
I’m going thru the same thing. Going to see the endocrinologist in a few days
27 Mar 2024

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TeAnna
2 Feb 2024

If you have lost or are losing your mucus plug can you still have sex if you use comdoms?

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Veronica
Mucas plug can grow back sperm actually soften/ripens the cervix. I dont see a problem with sex without condoms
27 Mar 2024

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Banessa
I agree unless your water breaks
27 Mar 2024

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Tywuan
23 Jan 2024

Is it’s possible if that you can have sex four time out of week and still don’t get pregnant..

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🎀 Kayla Marie 🎀
yes. it's possible to have sex every single day and not get pregnant unfortunately.
27 Mar 2024

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Tywuan
So is it a certain time that you have to have sex to get pregnant
27 Mar 2024

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Shylee
16 Jan 2024

PLEASE HELP!! I just had a miscarriage at 7 weeks pregnant and I would like to know when we can have sex and try again.. I went to the OB today and she said it’s all out and my cervix is closed.. but I’m still having very light bleeding.. is it okay to have sex yet?

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Katie
Yes if she said everything looks normal just have gentle sex
27 Mar 2024

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Stephanie
11 Dec 2023

TMI but if you tested positive for Strep B can you still have sex? Also will they induce you so there able to give antibiotics in time or will they just let you go into labor?

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Abby
Strep B is only an issue when the baby is being born before then it has no effect on the baby. Everything should stay the same.. no induction or abstinence needed they will just put you on and antibiotic drip while you are giving birth and that will protect the baby. (From my understanding)
27 Mar 2024

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Crystal
100% correct. 5 out of 6 of my pregnancy I tested positive. It's a normal bacteria that grows in a women's vagina. It has no impact on day to day life. Vaginally giving birth you have IV antibiotics. If you don't get enough antibiotics while in labor they will put you and baby on a 72 hour hold to make sure both mom and baby are safe. Smh. Doctors really need to be explaining this more in depth with soon to be mom's.
27 Mar 2024

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Monesha Williams
8 Dec 2023

Y’all still having sex? 🤣🤣 Because Baby ain’t letting me enjoy myself 😩

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Hanna
Nope and it sucks lol
27 Mar 2024

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Hanna
Even if we try it’s not enjoyable
27 Mar 2024

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Corrina
21 Sep 2023

So I just got my period so do this means I still can be possibly pregnant? because I had sex this day

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Jimeria Townsel
u can’t hve a period n be pregnant only way to kno fasho is to get blood wrk did .
27 Mar 2024

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Kaila
Usually your not pregnant if you get your period it’s very very unlikely.
27 Mar 2024

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Kelsey
21 Aug 2023

I had unprotected sex a week before my period can I still be pregnant even tho I had my period? Please don’t judge me

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Kelsey
What about this picture ?
27 Mar 2024

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Pinksparkle
Extremely rare
27 Mar 2024

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Monique
1 Oct 2022

found out im having a girl 🥰🥰🥰 but i had a cerclage about 11 days ago and they said you can’t have a orgasm or have sex throughout the rest of your pregnancy have anyone got this and still had sex seen my doctor yesterday she asked did i get a cerclage and she never told me not to have sex

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Tasia
Idk what a cerclage even is. What is it??
27 Mar 2024

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brianna
Cervical cerclage is a surgical procedure performed during pregnancy to place a stitch around the neck of the womb (cervix). The stitch is aimed to support the cervix and reduce risk of an early birth
27 Mar 2024

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Chrissy
2 Aug 2022

I'm so scared to have sex now that I'm pregnant. I know that it's okay to have sex, but I'm still worried something would happen

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Sharnell
Keep a positive mindset, all will b well 🙏🏾❤️
27 Mar 2024

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thania
I didn’t start having sex until I was in my second trimester I was worried to
27 Mar 2024

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