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2 Apr 2024

Brothers and Sisters Welcoming a Baby

Brothers and Sisters Welcoming a Baby
As you prepare to welcome your little one into the world, it's important to consider how this new addition will impact your existing family dynamic, particularly the relationship between your older children and the new baby.
Preparing Your Children for the Arrival of the Baby
It's normal for your older children to experience a mix of emotions as they anticipate the arrival of their new sibling.
Here are some tips to help them adjust and embrace their role as big brothers or sisters:
  1. Communication is key: Talk openly with your children about the upcoming arrival of the baby, emphasizing the positive aspects and the joy of having a new family member.
  2. Include them in preparations: Involve your older children in preparing the nursery, selecting baby items, and even choosing a special gift for the baby.
  3. Read books together: Explore children's books about becoming a sibling to help your children understand what to expect and address any concerns they may have.
Bonding with the Baby
Once the baby arrives, it's important to create opportunities for your older children to bond with their new sibling.
This will help build a strong foundation for their relationship as they grow up together.
Here's how you can encourage sibling bonding:
  1. Spend quality time together: Set aside special moments for your older children to bond with the baby, such as gentle cuddling, reading stories, or singing lullabies.
  2. Encourage involvement: Involve your older children in age-appropriate activities, such as helping with diaper changes, selecting baby clothes, or assisting with bath time.
  3. Celebrate milestones together: Encourage your older children to cheer on their baby sibling's developmental milestones, such as the first smile or the first steps.
Nurturing a Loving Sibling Relationship
As your children grow, it's essential to foster a strong and loving sibling relationship.
Siblings can become lifelong friends and sources of support for one another.
Consider the following strategies to nurture their bond:
  1. Promote cooperation: Encourage your children to work together on projects or play games that require collaboration, teaching them the value of teamwork and shared experiences.
  2. Set clear expectations: Establish family rules that promote kindness, respect, and inclusivity among siblings. Model these behaviors yourself and provide gentle guidance when conflicts arise.
  3. Create traditions: Develop special family traditions that involve all members, such as movie nights, game nights, or family outings. These shared experiences can strengthen the bond between siblings.
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Oh sweet Baby girl 🥰💓 you were so worth the wait! So excited!!! 😍 We got our Sneak Peek Clinical results back just now, and after 2 sons and a bonus son, we are welcoming baby girl, Raven Grace 👑 💖🧚‍♀️

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Congrats mines said girl too and it better be right !!!! lol
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I had the clinical sneak peek, so no risk for male contamination lol 😂 as I wanted to be pretty sure. I have NIPT at first Dr appt the 30th but won't have that back till early Feb, and I couldn't wait that long after I heard about Sneak Peek. I'd say they really are pretty accurate and especially for female.
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Angel
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Zaiden ♥️ Your such an happy baby mommy and daddy and your brother an sisters love you ❤️ we are lucky you are ours! #

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Hey Big boy Zaiden
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Nik
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My baby will have 12 other siblings 😅 9 sisters and 3 brothers 😩 What about y’all???

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Keilly
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Welcoming my baby boy who decided to come early at 37 weeks to meet his mom and dad and older brother.

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Congratulations
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Congrats Hun and God bless him
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Tiffany Hayes
6 Sep 2023

Happy 24weeks to me I'm blessed to be able to make it this far with my lil man my kids are so over joyed about there new sibling they can not wait until he arrives Mr. Malachi mommie& Daddy and your brothers and sisters love you already #family happiness

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Yay! More than half way there
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Tiffany Hayes
thank you love
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Aesha
19 Aug 2023

Happy 36 weeks to me and bean September 7th need to come on cause mommy is ready to meet you baby girl I’m so in love with you and daddy and yours sisters and brothers are ready too my 🍀 #7

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Jayowens
🎊🎉🥳
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Tifanie foster
It’s coming in no time sis🎉🎊😘
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Rachel
26 Jun 2023

What a wonderful day. 🥰 so hubby and I took the girls bowling, to meet up with his brothers and sisters who were visiting from SC. His oldest sister (20 ish) told me I looked really good. There’s just some kind of glow about me (mind you, I’m in sweat pants and a t-shirt). She then looked down, spotted my tummy, and got a big ol grin on her face. I tried to quickly tell her that our girls didn’t know yet and to keep it on the DL and she nodded. Was just a wonderful feeling. Baby is tucked in and growing strong 🥰🤰🏼🤞🏼🙏🏼

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Sounds like so much fun! I'm so happy for you girl, I love hearing about your life and how far you've come with your bundle of joy, you truly deserve this 🌈💖
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Rachel
It was wonderful. And thank you, truly. I often feel like a burden posting so much on here but it’s like y’all get it. 🥰💜 I don’t have much family let alone family I can talk to. 😔 just praying every day this little rainbow keeps on growing 🥰💜💜
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Victoria
19 Jan 2023

Went to see my baby early today. Layla mommy daddy and your sisters and brothers love you. Can't wait until you come home with us....

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Congratulations 🎉🎊🎈🍾
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Victoria
thank youuú❤️❤️❤️
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Desery’e 💙🩵🦋♎️
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🌀⚡KERI⚡🌀
Girl you look like you about to drop that baby
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Desery’e 💙🩵🦋♎️
I feel like it too friend , I feel so much pressure below 👇
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Desery’e 💙🩵🦋♎️
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Thee best Mother’s Day gift is literally this little baby growing healthy in my belly 🤰🏾💕🙌🏾💙😁🎉🥰🎊 Mommy & Daddy , and Your sisters and brothers love you Already !!! 7weeks 5days

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Absolutely agree with this
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Desery’e 💙🩵🦋♎️
❤️❤️❤️ I hope you had a beautiful Mother’s Day!!!
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