Baby psychology, how does it work?

You CANNOT I repeat You CANNOT SPOIL A NEWBORN! Your baby is SUPPOSED to cry! How else are they going to relay what they need? Your supposed to hold your baby and let them know that you’re there for them, that is an important part of life…it’s called EMPATHY. I swear people should have to take child psychology classes before giving birth because some of y’all sound ignorant as hell.

Everything your toddler does is developmentally appropriate. Hitting Biting Spitting Not sharing Yelling Ignoring you Talking back Throwing food, etc. These things are SUPPOSED to happen in order for your child to GROW THEIR BRAIN. Your child’s normal behavior is not a reflection of your parenting. Your 3 year old is NOT “bad” nor are you a BAD parent because he’s on the floor of a restaurant kicking and screaming over a broken crayon. They are little people with big feelings figuring out how to appropriately navigate these feelings. They don’t have the psychological capability to be malicious without realizing the consequences. They need you more than ever during their meltdowns. Give yourself and those babies grace. You BOTH are doing the best you can with what you have. Signed, 4 years of adolescent psychology studies. Good morning. ❤ -Copied

This Virgo mama has just stumbled upon a strategy that will not only ensure her son will pick up on some very important core life skills but also one that may improve her husband's quality of life as well. Once again my interest in psychology and child development is saving the day. Doing test runs with my theories now. We'll see how things go. According to my research (and if my hunches are indeed correct), this discovery could be a huge game changer for this household! More later.

Imagine if our babies personalities were based on what emotions they were exposed to in the womb 🤔 how many of us would make more of an effort to check ourselves and not sweat the small stuff 🤣 to respond rather than react, and most importantly to walk tf away from situations that make us unhappy